Why You Should Consider Dating A Sugar Mummy/Daddy

A sugar mummy or daddy relationship is usually one where the woman, mummy, or man, daddy, is older, rich and willing to spoil a handsome young man or beautiful woman who is referred to as the sugar baby. A sugar baby usually is a much younger man or woman who is handsome or beautiful, ambitious and he or she is willing to give his or her time, company, and body in exchange for money, gifts, and or connections to advance his or her business or career.

You’ll find sugar mummies and daddies in all relationship status. Singles, divorced, widows and even married.

Sugar dating is nothing new. It’s very popular in the US and now even in UK. And there are many US and UK sugar dating websites, especially sugar daddy dating sites. Nigeria seems to be catching up now. But unlike in the countries mentioned, the reverse is the case here. Older rich women looking for younger men and younger men looking for older rich women are more daring to publicly ask for hook ups. Hence there are now many Nigerian sites offering sugar mummy dating services.

It’s part of the goal of sugarlovedating.blogspot.com too to connect Nigerian older rich women and men with beautiful young Nigerian sugar babies. The way I do this here is that the interested party sends in their request using my contact for the blog, and I publish the request here on the blog.

The first thing that comes to mind when you hear of a younger person dating an older person because of financial gains is ‘that’s another form of prostitution’. And yes, I thought so too. But being a down to earth person I allowed myself to rationalize it. And I thought I’ll share this with you, not necessarily to get you to find a sugar daddy or mummy for yourself or to ease your conscience if you’re already in such a relationship but to make you see that it makes some sense (especially for young women dating older men) and could be the best relationship for you depending on where you are in your life right now. And if you’re already into it, this post is my way of saying, it’s okay.

If you’re a woman and you’re not in a Sugar relationship you may want to consider it because you may already be doing for and with someone everything, if not more, that a sugar partner will require. The only difference is you don’t get spoiled for it; which if you think about it, is your loss.

Think about it. How many young women are being used today by young men pretending they want committed relationship with them whereas they are just using them. These women will play the role of wives in the relationship even be giving the men money with the believe that such men love them and what they do for them is their way of showing their love and support for the man they love, whereas the men don't even consider them their girlfriends but pretend they do.

And how many young women find themselves in a ‘friends with benefits’ relationship. How many young women have slept with guys with the believe it's the beginning of something special, and after the deed is done, the men immediately stop avoiding them because they have gotten what they wanted from them.

If you’re going to give your time for a non-commitment relationship doesn’t it make sense that the person at least pay for your time? Moreover this way you know what you’re getting into and wouldn’t invest unnecessary emotions.

Moreover, there are good reasons aside financial gains to consider sugar dating.

Reasons to Consider Sugar Dating aside the Financial Gains it Offers

1. You want to have fun with the opposite sex without any commitment. No why didn’t you call me all day. No you don’t love me anymore or related dramas that comes with a committed relationship.

2. Sugar dating is usually non exclusive. So you can hang out with someone else freely if you wanted to and not worry about what the person you're dating will think of it. Although in the case of sugar mummies, especially Nigeria sugar mummies who are likely to be possessive, they may require that you be exclusive to them. But if that's the case, you can increase your bargain with them.

3. Most of your relationships with younger men have been abusive, you feel older men can treat you better. And you want an older man that is sophisticated and established.

Some of the people who are in a sugar relationship have done so not because of the cash and gifts they can get from their rich partners but because of one or more of the three reasons above. And those are good reasons too you may want to consider a sugar relationship. When you’re not ready for a commitment and you date someone from your age group, even though this person agrees to a non commitment relationship, at some point feelings will start to develop that you may not be ready for.

Can I, miss diva, date a sugar daddy? No and Yes.

No, I can’t date someone for the sole purpose of financial gains. I know I have all it takes to make my own money. Yes, girl power!

However if I am attracted to someone who is attracted to me and wants to spend time with me, whether or not a long term relationship is possible between us, and I am at that moment not in any kind of relationship, and this person happens to be rich and willing to spoil me silly, I wouldn’t say no. But as open minded as I am, being with someone I am not attracted to just because he can do me some favors, put me on some allowance and buy me gifts, seem like a subtle way to prostitute. What makes sugar dating sound dirty is the attachment it has to someone getting lots of money for the sole purpose of offering their time and body to someone rich. Not because the partners are older; after all there are some people, women and men alike who would rather date someone older in a committed relationship.

Bottom line, I ordinarily wouldn't support sugar dating. But with our age group men failing to man up, and people who spend almost 365 days working and don’t have the time a serious relationship requires, I can see the purpose sugar dating serves. And people have the right to live their lives the way they like. Hence I offer the service here to meet that need. And if you think where you are in your life right now sugar dating meet your needs, then send your request to: